Shouldha, Couldha, Wouldha…

Hindsight is 20/20! How many things in our lives fall under should have, could have or would have? We can regret not making or making certain decisions but that won’t change where we are today. A wise man once said we are where we are supposed to be!  Second guessing past decisions are a waste of time. If you are dissatisfied with an area or areas of your life and you wish they were different – Change!  Change can’t happen on its own or by wanting it to. Change only occurs when we take action. So if you’re dissatisfied with something start taking small steps toward changing. Decide what you want,then take one small action everyday toward that change.  That is the only way to get onto a different path is move in another direction. Try not to get discouraged if things don’t turn around right away. Remind yourself how long it took you to get where you are and how long you’ve been this way. (example your weight) I’m sure x amount of pounds didn’t appear over night!  Give your self sometime to lose the weight, or what ever you’re changing.

Good luck, and take some action!




By gin

A master teacher in the martial arts, trying to master her life and her thinking to create a better world....

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